
Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice! That's the condition of the
Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice! That's the condition of the female. Women have been conditioned to sacrifice for centuries.






Hearken, O seekers of truth, to the voice of ages. The cry of sacrifice has long been the song of womanhood, echoing through the halls of time. From the cradle to the grave, women have been taught that to love is to yield, to serve is to endure, and to give is to vanish into silence. The great teacher Betty Dodson, in unveiling this truth, names the chain that binds: “Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice! That is the condition of the female.” Her words strike like thunder upon the mountain, awakening those who slumber in inherited obedience.
For centuries, the conditioning of women has been carved deep into flesh and spirit. Mothers gave their bread to their children and went hungry. Wives stood behind the glory of kings and warriors, their names unremembered though their hands bore the weight of kingdoms. Daughters surrendered their dreams upon the altar of family duty, silenced in their longing. This tradition of sacrifice was praised as virtue, even as it devoured their essence. What was called “noble” was often only necessity forced by a world that demanded women’s giving but denied their being.
Consider the tale of Penelope, wife of Odysseus. While her husband journeyed for twenty years, battling monsters and chasing glory, Penelope’s battlefield was the loom. She wove by day and unraveled by night, guarding her home and fending off suitors, holding her kingdom intact through patience and cunning. Her story is not sung with spears and fire, but with sacrifice hidden beneath endurance. She gave her youth, her solitude, and her longing, so that a man might return to a world still waiting for him. Such is the story of countless women, unrecorded in books, yet etched in the fabric of civilization.
But wisdom tells us: sacrifice need not be the eternal lot of woman. The chains forged by centuries can be broken by awareness and courage. Dodson’s cry is not only a lament but also a call to arms, urging women to reclaim what was buried beneath duty. To know the history of their condition is to rise above it, to refuse the endless pouring out of self until nothing remains. Let the daughters of tomorrow hear these words and understand: the worth of a woman is not measured by how much she surrenders, but by the fire of her own becoming.
Therefore, let us honor the sacrifices of the past, but let us not mistake them for destiny. To awaken from this ancient pattern is to restore balance, to allow love to flow without chains, and to build a world where both men and women give, not from compulsion, but from fullness. The wisdom of Dodson resounds: the time has come to recognize, to remember, and to rise.
DPHoang Dat Pham
This quote really makes me question how much we value women’s time, energy, and desires. It feels like society often pushes women to prioritize everything and everyone else. But what happens when women want to choose themselves over the constant act of giving? How do we start recognizing that a woman's well-being and happiness are just as important as anyone else’s, and how can we support that shift?
HTHoang Trinh
Betty Dodson’s words seem harsh but ring true. It feels like women are often expected to sacrifice—be it their career for family, their needs for others, or even their personal desires. What can society do to change this mindset, and can women break free from it without backlash? Is it possible to find a balance where women can still care for others but without having to lose themselves in the process?
UPTruong Thai Uyen Phuong
I find Dodson’s statement a bit unsettling, but also eye-opening. It makes me wonder: How much of this 'sacrifice' is internalized by women as just part of life? Does it become so ingrained that women don’t even question it? Or do they feel trapped by societal expectations? Are we doing enough to give women the space to reclaim their own agency and break free from this long-standing pattern of self-sacrifice?
TLHoang thuy linh
This quote feels so true in many ways. The idea that women have been conditioned to sacrifice for others is a tough but important realization. But if this is the case, how do we break free from these centuries-old expectations? How do we teach women to prioritize themselves without feeling guilty or selfish? Is this a cultural shift that can happen quickly, or does it require a much longer process of unlearning?
-84/Nguyen Huu Phu - 8A8
Betty Dodson's words really strike a chord. It’s as if women are almost expected to always put others before themselves, whether in families, relationships, or careers. How much has this expectation shaped the lives of women throughout history? I wonder, do women today still feel pressured to sacrifice their own desires and needs? How can we start challenging this ingrained expectation, and is it even possible to change that narrative?