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"The love of a mother is the veil of a softer light between the heart and the heavenly Father." — thus spoke Samuel Taylor Coleridge, the dreamer-poet who wandered between faith and feeling, shadow and revelation. In these tender words, he sought to unveil one of the deepest mysteries of existence: that the love of a mother is not merely human affection, but a divine reflection — a soft light, gentle yet eternal, that shields the fragile heart of man from the blinding majesty of God’s infinite love. For the divine is too vast, too radiant for the human spirit to bear directly, and so Providence, in mercy, places before us the mother’s heart — a veil woven of tenderness, sacrifice, and compassion — through which the light of heaven may pass without consuming us.

In the mother’s love, the soul first learns the language of the divine. Before a child can speak of God, he has felt Him — in the arms that cradle him, in the hands that shield him from pain, in the eyes that shine with forgiveness even when he errs. Thus, Coleridge calls this love a veil, for it hides the full power of heaven’s glory behind the gentle mercy of a human touch. The mother becomes the first priestess of the human heart, her presence the first revelation of goodness. Through her, the eternal teaches the mortal how to love.

Consider the story of Monica, the mother of Saint Augustine. Her son strayed far from faith, lost in pleasure and philosophy. Yet Monica never ceased to pray, never ceased to believe. Through years of tears and unyielding patience, her love pursued him across continents, across years of rebellion. And when at last Augustine turned his heart to God, he confessed that it was not the power of argument that saved him, but the unbroken faith and tenderness of his mother. In her love, he had glimpsed the mercy of the Divine. Her devotion was indeed a “softer light” — one that guided him, gently, toward the brightness of heaven.

This is what Coleridge meant: that the mother’s love is both human and sacred, a bridge between earth and heaven. It is soft because it must be — for the human heart is fragile, easily broken by the weight of divine fire. A father’s love may instruct and command, but a mother’s love soothes and redeems. It is the whisper before the thunder, the dawn before the sun’s blaze. Through her patience, forgiveness, and unselfish care, she reveals the gentler side of eternity — teaching the soul that compassion is not weakness, but the very power of God made tender.

Yet let no one think that this love is frail. It endures beyond reason, beyond pain, beyond even death. History is filled with mothers whose love defied empires and fates. Think of Mary, the mother of Christ, who stood beneath the cross, her heart pierced with sorrow, yet her love unbroken. In her silence, she bore the weight of humanity’s grief, her tears mingling with divine purpose. She too was the veil of light — the human tenderness through which the divine redemption entered the world. In her we see the ultimate image of what Coleridge spoke: love that softens judgment, that turns the blaze of justice into the glow of mercy.

To understand this is to understand something essential about life itself — that gentleness is the garment of greatness, that mercy is the voice of power. In the mother’s heart lies the secret rhythm of the cosmos: the eternal giving, the quiet endurance, the boundless forgiveness. When we receive a mother’s love, we are being trained — unknowingly — to receive the love of God. For one who has learned to accept tenderness without fear, to trust without question, and to love without expectation, has already glimpsed the gates of heaven.

So let this be the lesson, O seekers of truth: honor the love that gave you life. If your mother lives, cherish her as the sacred veil she is. Speak gratitude while her ears may hear it. If she is gone, let her memory guide your heart as the moon guides the sea. And above all, learn from her example — let your love for others be a soft light, not harsh or proud, but patient and kind. For every act of gentle love is a reflection of the eternal, and through such love, the world is made bearable beneath the brilliance of the divine.

Thus, Coleridge’s words echo through time, a hymn to the sanctity of motherhood and the mercy of creation. The love of a mother is not merely an emotion; it is a sacred veil, drawn between our frailty and God’s eternity — a gentle light that teaches us to see the face of heaven without fear, and to love as heaven loves: endlessly, selflessly, and forever.