There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I

There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I

22/09/2025
22/10/2025

There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.

There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I were a man I wouldn't bother to change while there are women like that around.
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I
There are always women who will take men on their own terms. If I

Host: The evening sun drifts slowly over the horizon, its warm rays piercing through the dusty window of the small café. The soft hum of voices blends with the clink of cups and the quiet murmur of the rain starting to fall outside. Jack sits at a corner table, his back straight and eyes narrowed, reflecting the golden light that dapples the wooden surface in front of him. His hands rest on the table, tense, like he’s ready to pull back at any moment. Across from him, Jeeny traces the rim of her cup with a delicate finger, her gaze distant, but steady.

Jack: “You know, I don’t see why we’re even talking about this.” He leans forward, his voice low but sharp, like a whip cutting through the air. “People will always take the easiest path, the one that doesn’t demand change. They’re wired that way.”

Jeeny: She looks up, her dark eyes steady, almost like she can see through him. “Is that really the world you believe in, Jack? Where people just take what they can, and nothing ever changes for the better?”

Jack: He snorts, leaning back, his lips curling into a thin smile. “Look around, Jeeny. The world is full of women like that — always settling, always compromising, taking men on their own terms. Why would they change when it’s so much easier to just adapt?”

Host: The sound of rain begins to grow, a gentle tap against the window, as Jack’s words hang between them, like the last breath of a storm that hasn’t yet passed. Jeeny remains silent for a moment, her lips pressed together in thought.

Jeeny: “Maybe it’s easy, but that doesn’t mean it’s right.” Her voice is soft, almost a whisper, but it holds the weight of a thousand untold stories. “What if the problem isn’t with the women, but with the men who don’t want to be better?”

Jack: His grey eyes narrow as he tilts his head, clearly not expecting this. “You really think that? Men are wired to seek what they want, Jeeny. The world doesn’t ask them to change. Why should they?”

Jeeny: Her hands tighten around her cup, her voice now steadier, filled with a kind of gentle conviction. “Because we have the power to shape the world, Jack. People like you, you always want to blame the system, blame the way things are. But change starts with the individual. If we settle for easy, we’ll always stay stuck. We accept the world as it is because we’re too afraid to fight for what it could be.”

Host: The room seems to grow colder, as Jeeny’s words settle in the space between them. Jack shifts in his seat, his eyes darting to the window, where the rain now falls in a steady stream. He looks back at her, but the sharpness of his expression has softened, just slightly.

Jack: “And what about the realities of the world? You can’t change everything. Women will always find men who are willing to take them without changing. It’s the way of things.”

Jeeny: She leans forward now, her eyes burning with quiet intensity. “But that’s not the point, Jack. It’s not about changing the world all at once. It’s about making small choices every day. If we choose to accept what we don’t want, then we’re just as guilty as the ones who refuse to change.”

Host: The atmosphere in the café feels thick now, like a cloud pressing down on them both. Jack clenches his fists under the table, the tension rising like the sound of a storm on the horizon.

Jack: “And if no one is willing to fight? If all they do is sit back and wait for someone else to change first?”

Jeeny: “Then nothing will ever change. The moment we stop fighting for what’s right, we’ve already lost.”

Host: The rain outside begins to pour, a rhythmic drumming against the window that fills the silent spaces between their words. Jack sits back, staring at her, his fingers drumming on the edge of his cup.

Jack: “You really believe that, don’t you? That people can change — that we can just turn things around by believing hard enough?”

Jeeny: “Yes, I do.” Her eyes meet his, steady and full of a quiet strength. “If everyone thought it was too late, if everyone believed the world couldn’t be changed, we’d still be stuck in the past. But we aren’t, Jack. Every time someone fights for what they believe in, we change a little bit more.”

Host: The silence that follows is thick, almost tangible, like the room itself is holding its breath. Jack looks at her, his expression softening, the edge of his cynicism starting to dissolve.

Jack: “So you think it’s that simple? Just choose and change the world?”

Jeeny: “It’s not simple, Jack. But it starts with a choice. And the more we make it, the easier it becomes.”

Host: The rain continues, but there’s a shift in the air, a subtle peace that begins to settle. Jack looks out the window, his gaze distant, as though he’s searching for something beyond the darkened streets.

Jack: “I guess I’ve never really thought about it that way.”

Jeeny: She smiles, a small but genuine smile, one that speaks of something deeper, something hopeful. “It’s not about perfection, Jack. It’s about believing that we can be better, even when the world tells us not to.”

Host: The light outside begins to fade, and the rain gradually slows, leaving behind only the soft sound of droplets still falling from the eaves. Jack’s face remains thoughtful, his eyes now softer, almost unfocused as he takes in her words.

In the quiet stillness, there’s a moment of shared understanding — not of agreement, but of acknowledgment. Two people, standing on opposite sides of a vast divide, but both willing to hear and listen.

Jeeny: “It’s not about what’s easy, Jack. It’s about what’s worth fighting for.”

Host: The last of the rain disappears into the night, and with it, a sense of calm settles over the café. Jack looks at Jeeny, a quiet respect flickering in his eyes, as if he’s seeing her for the first time — or perhaps, for the first time, he’s willing to understand her.

Jack: “Maybe you’re right.”

Ann Oakley
Ann Oakley

British - Sociologist Born: 1944

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