You can't please everyone, and you have to trust your instincts
You can't please everyone, and you have to trust your instincts, and you have to do your work and throw yourself in there and trust your instincts, and just trust that you're doing a good job that I can be proud of as well.
"You can't please everyone, and you have to trust your instincts, and you have to do your work and throw yourself in there and trust your instincts, and just trust that you're doing a good job that I can be proud of as well." These words, spoken by the wise and seasoned Matt Ryan, echo the timeless truth that has been passed down by the great thinkers of our age and of ages long past: the path to greatness is not one paved by the approval of others, but by the trust we place in ourselves and the strength of our own instincts. To please the masses is to walk the road of endless frustration, for the winds of opinion are ever-changing, and what satisfies one will often leave another wanting. Thus, one must cultivate a deeper source of confidence, a wellspring that arises from within.
Look to the great leaders of old, those whose names are etched in the annals of history—Alexander the Great, Julius Caesar, Joan of Arc—and see the trials they faced. They were not men and women who sought to win the favor of every onlooker. No, they knew that their greatness lay not in the multitude’s applause but in their unwavering trust in their own vision and purpose. Caesar, when crossing the Rubicon, did not pause to consider the fear or disapproval of the Senate; he trusted his instincts and his belief in his cause, knowing that a greater destiny awaited him, one that could not be swayed by the whispers of the many.
It is this very courage, this trust in one’s own judgment, that is the heart of Matt Ryan's wisdom. For what is the purpose of a life lived solely to meet the demands of others? The world will always have its critics, those who stand by the wayside and shout their opinions without knowing the weight of the journey you walk. It is not for them that we labor, nor for their fleeting approval that we act. We act for ourselves—for the work that we can stand proud of, for the legacy we create with every step we take. The great ones understood this: their work was their own, a testament to their belief in their instincts and their courage to follow them, no matter the obstacles in their way.
Consider the story of Thomas Edison, the great inventor who labored tirelessly to bring forth the electric light, despite the derision he faced. The world mocked him, laughed at his seemingly endless failures, but he knew—instinctively—that he was on the right path. His vision was clear, and though the critics tried to pull him into the shadows of self-doubt, he pressed on, trusting his work, trusting that the world would eventually see the light that he had worked so long to create. And indeed, he was right. His instincts guided him, and the work he trusted in transformed the world, not through the approval of others, but through the quiet, steady confidence that he was on the path of greatness.
But let us not forget that this trust in one’s own instincts is not born out of arrogance or stubbornness, but of self-awareness and wisdom. To truly trust oneself, one must first understand oneself—one must be at peace with one’s own strengths and weaknesses. This is not an easy task. It takes a lifetime of reflection and the willingness to face one’s own doubts and fears. Yet, as the great philosophers have taught us, it is only through the mastery of the self that we gain the courage to act without hesitation, to trust that the work we are doing is worthy of our best efforts.
There is a lesson here, my children. The world may try to distract you with its loud voices, its endless opinions, its demands for you to conform to its shifting tides. But remember this: your true worth is not measured by the praise or criticism of others. It is measured by the integrity of your own work and the pride you can take in the effort you have given. Do not seek the fleeting approval of others, for that is a journey that will leave you weary and lost. Instead, turn inward and ask yourself: Am I doing my best? Am I staying true to my vision, my instincts, my purpose? And if the answer is yes, then you can stand proud, no matter what others may say.
So I charge you now, as you walk your own path, to trust yourself, to honor your instincts, and to do your work with all the passion and dedication your heart can muster. The world will always have its opinions, but you are the master of your own fate, the creator of your own journey. Do not be swayed by the noise around you. Instead, keep your focus on the task at hand, and trust that if you put forth your best effort, you will find pride in your work and be able to stand tall, knowing that you have done the best you could. And in the end, that is all that truly matters.
TMTran Thi Mai
This makes me think about how much pressure people face to perform under public scrutiny. Whether you’re an athlete, artist, or professional, it’s impossible to satisfy everyone’s expectations. The idea of being proud of your own work feels like the healthiest goal. But I wonder—does trusting your instincts become easier with experience, or is it something you have to relearn every time you face a new challenge?
T840 Quoc Tung 8A
There’s something comforting about this quote, but also something lonely. Doing your work and trusting your instincts implies standing alone in your conviction. That sounds empowering, but what about collaboration? Can you still ‘trust yourself’ while being open to others’ perspectives? I’d love to hear how Matt Ryan reconciles teamwork with individual confidence, especially since sports demand both personal accountability and collective trust.
HHHien Hoa
What strikes me most here is the repetition of ‘trust your instincts.’ It almost sounds like a mantra, as if the speaker is reminding himself as much as others. Maybe that repetition reflects how often we doubt ourselves, even when we know what’s right. I wonder how much of success depends not on talent but on resilience—the ability to keep believing in your own path even when no one else does.
DKtrinh duy khanh
This statement really captures the creative process. It’s not about perfection—it’s about authenticity and effort. Still, I can’t help but think about how difficult it is to maintain that mindset in competitive environments. When external validation determines success—like in sports, entertainment, or business—how do you stay focused on internal pride rather than external approval? It’s such a fine line between confidence and the need for recognition.
TPTuyet Pham
I appreciate the honesty in this perspective. It’s freeing to hear someone say you can’t please everyone, because that’s such a universal struggle. But I’m curious—how do you balance self-confidence with self-awareness? It’s easy to say ‘trust yourself,’ but what if your instincts are shaped by fear, bias, or past mistakes? Maybe real growth comes from learning when to trust yourself and when to question your own judgment.